A contributor at Feminism is Empathological, I Art Laughing, has a good post on what the Resigned Loving Patriarch looks like when confronted with his own sin, from the story of Noah and Ham. Part of his summary struck a response
I think it is our job as husbands to counter the feminist culture, in the world and in our wives. We need to love our wives like Christ loved the Church, and not respond like they are God Himself when the criticize us.
One of the most fruitful fights with my wife was my persistent trivialization and condescension of Oprah, and fem-centric media in general; TV, ads, magazines, everything. Fight is not the right word: It was a years long guerrilla war. Every time I saw emotionally-based, lib-tard, anti-masculine, Feminist programming I would mock it; sneer at it; laugh at her if she was enjoying it.
Now, I don’t know if this was the best approach (and I’m not the best patriarch), but overall it was worth the fight. One sweet fruit of which was texted to me at 7:30pm the other night (I’m out of town).